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[15 Mar 2010 | 11 Comments | ]
Regarding Online Dating Ads, St. Patrick’s Day, and Being A Black Lady The whole online dating thing is beyond out of control. This weekend BlackPeopleMeet.com tried to break fly and use a picture of D'Angelo in a Facebook ad, so I roasted them appropriately and moved on. But then this morning I opened my e-mail to find this:

Direct your gaze to the upper left-hand corner. Did a Black Big Beautiful Women dating site just send me a St. Paddy's Day promotion? Let me explain. A few years ago I did an online dating experiment. I

Dating, What the Eff? »

[23 Sep 2009 | 4 Comments | ]

I’ve been super busy this week with big things happening, but it’s Wednesday so I have to at least give you something to make you go “what the eff?” real quick. It’s times like these that I wish I could …

Dating, Our Shame, Spot Blowing, Yipes! »

[14 Aug 2009 | 9 Comments | ]
I don't really use Myspace anymore. I still maintain a profile and log on once in a blue moon and every single time I'm greeted by friend requests from the likes of ...


I know exactly what happened here...

Dating, Hip Hop Is Dead., Miscegenation, Yipes! »

[22 Jan 2009 | 6 Comments | ]
Random CraigsList Post

white boy for Strong Black Goddess…. – 42

My search may be unusual but it is very serious, real, honest and direct so if You dont think You fit then please dont write back but if You are a Black …

Dating, Our Shame, What the Eff? »

[27 Aug 2008 | 14 Comments | ]
I'm pushing thirty, I'm single, and I spend most of my time at a computer. Is it any wonder that I've dabbled in online dating? The sad thing is that 90% of what I encountered was sheer nonsense. It wasn't all bad but I've decided to unsubscribe and never look back.

At Least They're Not Black..., Dating, News, Our Shame, Spot Blowing, Web Stuff, Yipes! »

[7 Aug 2008 | 4 Comments | ]

My favorite type of comedy is that which is so utterly random, yet points out enough of a trend that while laughing you feel both in-the-know and sick-minded at the same time. Mexican Muffintops is just that. I am not …

Dating, Fresh Black Girls, Good Hair Gone Bad, Long Live the Colored Race!, Miscegenation, My Life, Not Racist Cuz It's True., Our Shame, Politics »

[25 Jun 2008 | 34 Comments | ]

After the meaningless nonsense of the past few days, in fact, past few years, I’ve finally accepted that Black Love is in a bit of trouble. I ADORE Black Love itself – as corny as it may sound, there’s …

Dating, My Life, Spot Blowing, Web Stuff »

[3 Jun 2008 | 15 Comments | ]

Apr 24, 2007 10:38 PM
Subject: hi beautiful

hey pretty! how are you sweetie? do you have a man?

Apr 24, 2007 11:53 PM
Subject: wow

wow no response sweetie. whats up with that?

Apr 25, 2007 8:00 PM
Subject: …

Dating, Reader Submissions, What the Eff? »

[18 Jan 2008 | 7 Comments | ]

It seems as though the world has caught on to my spot blowing tendencies, so messages from weirdos have been in short supply. Fortunately, I’ve rubbed off on my dear friend Emily, who received this craziness on Facebook:

I …

Dating »

[27 Sep 2007 | 8 Comments | ]

Date: Sunday, December 28, 2003 5:47 PM
Subject: Bonjor Madame

TU vas beau l’oeil. You have beautiful eyes to match your beautiful welcoming smile. I hope your having a great day. I hope your day get’s even better when

Dating »

[13 Sep 2007 | 6 Comments | ]

Subject: you are avery beautiful and lovely lady.

hello .

how are you doing hope fine if so glory be to God who has made me a member of this site where i have found you to be the …

Dating »

[24 Aug 2007 | 6 Comments | ]


How are you?

My name is Rafal.I am nice, intelligent with a good sense of humor. I have Masters degree and I am 27 years old. I amworking now in NYC as a management and publicityspecialist, but

Dating »

[18 Jul 2007 | 5 Comments | ]

To be fair, the message only said “u hot,” but I was curious and had to check out his profile. Really smooth how he specified that he’s looking for a “sexually active” female, isn’t it?

Date: Wednesday, July 30, 2003 …

Bad Grammar, Dating, My Life »

[10 Jul 2007 | 10 Comments | ]
I think I got this one because I have a South African name.

how sweety, its good to be writing you today on myspace..i am glad i took this route today and i am glad i didnt forgo the opportunity

Dating, My Life »

[21 Jun 2007 | No Comment | ]

Nevermind the lack of full sentences, what I wanna know is, why did dude send me a picture of himself in his little terrorist cell?

From: tommy
Date: Friday, April 22, 2005 2:26 AM
Subject: Hİ
Message: MY NAME IS